Why I Drew Pascal From Tangled
Tangled has been one of my favourite Disney films from when I first saw it, the songs, the characters and of course Rapunzel’s side kick Pascal. Pascal has always had Rapunzel’s back, whether that’s keeping an eye on a Flynn or playing ‘hide and seak’ when she’s bored stuck up in the tower. We all need a friend like that who has your back no matter what, when your get yourself in embarrassing situations, you need that person who will grab the popcorn and wine and sit there with you until you can’t talk about it anymore.
This made me think about my own friendships and what I have learnt about them over the years.
Why I Drew Pascal From Tangled
4 Things I’ve Learnt About Friendships
There seems to be a perception that because of social media we need to be connected all the time. When you’re seeing everyone’s daily life being posted virtually it can give you the impression that you are keeping up to date with them even though there has been no face-to-face interaction, which can make you feel lonely and insignificant.
I value friendships on the face to face interactions rather than text/private messaging someone (which can bring some miscommunication and the odd discussion that I never reply). I know I’m this day and age people rely on texting to feel valued and show that you care about someone. I don’t view it this way. I use text messaging as a means to reach out and make plans with someone or tell them something super exciting that I can’t wait to tell them before I see them again.
People Get Busier- Small Talk Disappears
I hope I’m not the only one that hates small talk when I’m busy with work or just life, I don’t have the time to talk about “how are you” or “what you been up to” I’m no longer 16 anymore. Quick texts to make plans is way less time-consuming and to the point which allows you to actually have something to talk about when you meet. This brings me onto my next point,
Face To Face Interaction
I want to talk to my friends face to face and ask them what they have been up to. I don’t go on Facebook as much anymore because I don’t wanna know what people have gotten up to so it makes me want to see them and actually ask them what they are doing with their life at the moment. I also think that if you rely just on phone communication, you can feel more lonely and distant even though you are staying in touch. I am always up for a pub trip or a lovely lunch out somewhere. Even doing something free like going to a friend’s house to watch a movie or go for a walk makes for a brilliant catch up session.
Don’t Stick To One Friendship Group
I always thought, as a child, that having one big, super close friendship group was the only way to have a lot of friends. As I have gotten older, I appreciate more of a variety of friends. I like having different friendship groups to talk and do different things with. As you grow as a person you will have different hobbies, interests to your school/college friends so you need to meet new people and learn new things with other people who are like-minded. I have a college group of friends and then some teacher friends, so I can talk about any issues I have with my teaching friends because my college friends won’t fully understand! I now would love to meet a group of bloggers because my friends don’t get how difficult this is because they don’t do it.
It’s Okay To End Negative Friendships
Sometimes people grow apart, fall out or you just fizzle out and that is OK! You will meet new people but it might take a couple of months, but just know you will find someone else! Another person or group will appreciate you how you are. I remember at college I fell out with all my ‘school friends’ I was heartbroken but I found some college friends who are now some of the closest friends I have so there is always a light at the end of the tunnel!
About the Drawing
This was one of my first Disney inspired mandala pieces that I have done. I made up a challenge to do some Disney animals throughout the year and use my own patterns and designs. I am so impressed with how this turned out! And hopefully it will lead onto more Disney inspired mandala pieces.